Baby Q & A 寶寶問題解答
 
 
Q: 哈囉!   我的寶寶已經出生45天了.  我看了你的書"百歲醫師教我的育兒寶典"之後覺得你說的很對也這了你的方法做了2天 但卻因為環境不允許我這麼做所以中斷了. 因為我的公公跟婆婆疼孫子堅持一哭就餵奶 一個多月不能好好的睡覺真的好痛苦唷. 我真的不知道該怎麼做了. 我常常抱著小孩跟著他一起哭.  可以教教我該怎麼做嗎? Jiji   A: 哈囉！Jiji，很高興你寫信給我 很抱歉你有這樣難受的時候‧以下是我的建議 你必須要很有智慧的來建立你的作息表，在不讓任何人知道的情況下，盡力地遵行‧當我建立我的作息表時，沒有人真的知道我在做什麼‧試著保密你的作息表‧當沒有其他人在家的時候，就讓你的寶寶哭‧假如寶寶是在飯前哭，努力地使她分心 (幫她洗澡、帶她出去散步、和她玩…)，假如寶寶到吃飯時間還在睡覺，把她叫醒‧保持吃飯/玩耍/睡覺的循環‧假如你的婆婆要你在吃飯時間前就餵食，盡可能的趕快地把寶寶放到房間裡‧但在對的吃飯時間時，就要確保讓你的寶寶吃飽，也就是說，盡力遵照書裡所教的原則，即便你沒有辦法完全地遵行所有的原則，但只要你盡你所能的按照作息表，你仍然可以很快的感覺到有些不一樣‧ 假如你想要訓練寶寶一覺到天亮，或許可以在你婆婆睡著，不會聽到她哭聲的時候？ 不管如何，我想你仍然可以在不讓其他人知道的情況下，盡力地維持你的作息表，你只是需要機伶一些，希望你能很快的有些充足的休息‧  Hello Jiji. I am glad you wrote me. I am sorry you are having such a hard time. Here are my suggestions. You will need to be very smart. Set up your schedule, and try hard to follow your schedule without letting anyone else know. When I set up my schedule, nobody really knew what I was doing. Just try to keep your schedule secretively. When people are not home, let your baby cry. If the baby cries before feeding time, try hard to distract him. (Give him a bath, take him out for a walk, play with him...) If the baby is sleeping when it's feeding time, wake him up. Keep the feed/play/sleep cycle. If your in-laws make you feed the baby before scheduled time, try to latch the baby off as soon as you can. When it's the correct feeding time, try to make sure your baby gets a full feeding. In other words, try to keep the principles taught in this book as much as possible. Even though you cannot follow the principles perfectly, but if you try to keep the schedule as best as you can, you will still soon feel a difference. If you are trying to train the baby to sleep through the night, maybe your in-laws are asleep and won't hear the baby cry? Anyway, I think that you can still strive for the schedule without letting others know. You just have to be a little smarter about it. I hope that you can get some good rest very soon! Judy
 
我的公公跟婆婆堅持一哭就餵奶